両忘 (Ryou bou/mou) Zen word
It literal meaning is ‘forget both’. Forgetting refers to two oppsing concepts. The conceptation is “the state of not thinking about the objects being compared.” Forget relative oppositions such as life and death, suffering and ease, and break free from dualistic thinking.
This is impossible because we try tojudge things by our standard minds. Then why don’t you think about it from scratch, without any judgement?